re: Doubt this has happened to a TDer before.

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Anyway, now my wife wants to reach out to her son's wife, and let her know, so that her children can know where they came from, and let the wife know that if she needs help, we can help.

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I am thankful I'm not in your shoes because at this point I think closure for your wife has passed. I think it would be very selfish to interject into the widows life at this point.

I'm not sure how your wife moves on from this point but best of luck to you in getting through this.