re: My fiancee cheated on me.

give you the best advice my mother ever gave me when I went thru a divorce:

The woman you married is NOT the woman you're divorcing.


I know you said you're not married yet, but you have a kid together so the thought still applies. She is no longer the woman you fell in love with, she's a completely different person and she WILL frick you over in a heartbeat. All the sweet nice things she did for you in the past don't mean a damned thing now. Don't fall into the trap of thinking she still has your best interests in mind.

there has never been a truer statement I think I've read in my life...