re: GF just went to the doctor and is pregnant

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put it up for adoption

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Second that motion. My oldest son is adopted. He and I are extremely close. I communicate often with his birth mother, who now has a terrific life. Very likely she can get all medical expenses paid for by a prospective adoptive couple. And she can choose that couple out of the hundreds that will be falling all over themselves for a healthy newborn.

I'm not going to moralize on pro-life or pro-choice. That's up to you, your GF, and your higher power. No judgment here. What I will say is this.

Some women do not want to give a child up because they feel there will be a hole in their life when they do. There is going to be a hole in her life if she aborts. You have that problem either way.