re: How much do you spend on your SO for special occassions?

have not read the whole thread, but the wife of 13 years and I have a mutual agreement. She may get me a Happy Fathers Day beer glass and I her something like that for mothers day, but her birthday and mine we go to dinner.

Christmas time, we agree that throughout the year I can go on a couple of simple fishing or hunting trips and she goes does what she wants with the girls. She may buy some kind of "instapot" that she wants and I buy and expensive bottle of scotch for the holidays, but we don't buy each other anything expensive.

We have two kids and are not OT ballers, so the money goes to a couple of beach house trips for vacation and presents for the kids at Christmas.