re: 20th anniversary coming up - where should we go?

Just spent our anniversary in they keys. Like others have said, not beachey, but unless you actually want to go swim at the beach or sit in the same, you aren't missing out. Plenty of poolside lounging with great ocean views.

We did not stay in KW, but visited. Stayed in a much quieter place that was pretty nice in Duck Key. I plan to go back every few years since we really enjoyed it. Few things though. Our trip was in April so it was not overly hot yet. Also, it wasn't crowded since kids were still in school.