re: Creative ways to encourage or deal with a SO who hasn't aged well?

My ex's weight fluctuated from around 125-150 randomly while we were dating. When she got bigger, she knew it and got smaller without me saying anything. I thought she looked best at 135-ish on my eye scale. I let her know that.

Bottom line is.....all bitches know when they gain even a couple of pounds. Whether they care or not is the difference. Baws heifer DGAF. She needs to be fat shamed