re: I can predict from FB posts which of my female friends will leave their husbands

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It's why they are not attracted to men who try to win women over going the nice guy route.

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i think personality types matter a great deal here

intelligent, introverted women mesh well with this

most girls that we perceive as high value are not introverts thought, b/c being hot means they're primed early on to be social creatures and they naturally develop into extroverts. that leads to adventure seeking and the need for that stimulus

there ARE, in rare circumstances, pretty introverted girls who don't mesh well with more "alpha" types, BUT nice guys screw it up if they're not confident b/c introverted girls want freedom and an unconfident nice guy will smother them and that doesn't mesh

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The worst place you can take a woman on dates early in the process is out for dinner or a movie or something. That's not exciting. Girls just want to have fun. If you want her to be attracted to you, you need to do something that demonstrates your value, demonstrates your confidence, and shows you can have fun.

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yeah. i've tried some non-dinner things that became a disaster and it wasn't a bad thing b/c you can always make a move to somewhere else and laugh about it. being able to laugh about a failure and keep going is better than playing it safe and remaining meek and insecure

that's something that's very hard for intelligent, introverted men to accept. they trend much more anal retentive and appreciate order and if things go south they're not trained to roll with it, which is all you have to do if things go bust early on. if you just get angry or less secure b/c the initial thing went south, you're fricked going forward