re: For those that thought divorce would be awesome..

Support doesn't cover everything. Insurance is separate and any expenses that come from it have to be split. If you both work and have insurance, kids are covered under you both and whatever the insurance doesn't cover should be split. If your kids play sports or any other activities like that, the costs incurred are typically split. Really, it's anything outside of day care, clothes, food...etc.

But it depends on the state you were divorced in and how good your attorney is.