re: How To Politely Decline Being Best Man

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just wanted to make sure he doesn't hate me for not really being gung ho about it all.

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If you decline Being best man it will fundamentally change your relationship. Unless you can convince him that it was his idea to ask someone else. And that takes skills and the ability to read people that this thread tells me you don't have.

I seriously doubt he just thinks he owes you. You might be his only friend that isn't married or dating one of her friends.

Good luck.