re: How should I handle this situation figuring out my Dad used my birth money?

This is the society we live in today, he raised you, sent you to college, got you a car, paid your medical bills (not because of an illness but because you were doing something you shouldn't have been), and by him doing all of this for you it allowed you to get a degree where you will make a good living and provide for your family when the time comes. I noticed you said that he paid for your college even though you had tops, consider the fact that you shouldnt have any loans coming due soon and no job to pay it with, that's bc of your dad and now you think he owes you something?