re: Sober for 4 months but....

The issue is not the type of beer. As a child of alcoholism I can tell you the primary issue here is "I." I want, I like, I, I, I. Your thoughts should be, my behavior when drinking brought pain and suffering to my family and friends. This is obvious because of your wife's strong reaction to the NA beer. NOTHING is worth going back to that. And at only 4 months I can tell you those wounds are still raw and not even close to healing. You have probably lost trust from the people you love. Building back that trust takes time and baby steps. If any behavior, regardless of how trivial it may seem to you or others, hinders building that trust then please step back and count the cost. In 20 years what will you say you missed most in life, the taste of beer or the wasted opportunities to heal relationships.