re: So, is flirting just simply joking about having sex with each other?

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And is it weird that I can't approach a girl for the life of me, but I have no feat whatsoever with public speaking?

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Approaching strange women in a bar or club is not the easiest thing in the world to do. I think it's normal to be afraid if it's something you're not used to.

Maybe try meeting women through other avenues (hobbies, group activities, etc.). Especially if you want a relationship.