re: Update (w/a twist): This girl wants a first date that isn't a bar or restaurant.

Recently went on a date with a chick. Find out what she does like. Movies,bar,Putt putt, blowing etc is really what a man wants to do and she has probably already done those a few times.

I just kept asking questions until I found out she liked to paint...score. Quick google of paint places and Boom the next thing you know we are doing that BYOB and Paint thing. Then she wanted to extend the date by going out to eat.

Do not give in and tell her " You choose then. "It makes you look like a pussy and women don't want to have to deal with two pussies. Their own and you. Take control and you tell her what yall are going to do and if you feel really confident in your choice then you make it a surprise. Bitches love surprises.