re: Engagement Ring vs. Grooms Gift

I originally read this as groomsman gift as well. He's talking about the groom's gift. My wife's gift to me was not wasting anymore money . Unless you are financially well off (in that case neither of you would give a f*** what is being spent), then expensive wedding gifts to your significant other are dumb. Trust me, life will throw enough at you that you can use that money for.