re: OT Dads, did you buy the mother of your child a "push present"?

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You don't really understand what a "gift" is, do you?

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Sure I do. I'd much rather give someone a gift to show my appreciation for something they have done for me (maybe carry and birth my child) rather than give a gift just because I am socially obligated to do so on a particular. You're not giving the push present as a form of "payment" for carrying and birthing the child but as a sign of love and appreciation for all that person went through to bring your child into the world. JMO, but I think a gift is much more warranted in that situation