re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle

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if they've only been exclusive for 2 weeks, then it's disrespectful. I mean, it's a new relationship...she should want to spend more time with him.

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Depends on the situation. Me and my group of friends used to hang out with the same group of girls in high school and college. Ive been with a few of them. I couldnt just not see any of my friends anymore when i started dating my now fiance. But I'm confident and arrogant, she's trustworthy, and i never made it a point to talk to them or leave her alone.

It isnt the bringing him around the ex that's disrespectful, it's the talking to him and about him all the time that's disrepsectful,

And everyone, EVERYONE, has a safety net in their pocket. That person they flirt with and keep on the backburner. In new relationships you always meet that person. How you handle that situation can go along way either positively or negatively.

I like the advice someone else above me gave. Buy him a couple beers, shoot the shite about whatever, become friends, itll lower the tension.