re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle

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I agree with this, but how do I broach or get this across without being an insecure beta? Do I really have to break up with her?

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"Hey, I know A is your friend and all, but it's a real drag to have to hang out with this guy, he annoys me. What do you think about doing XYZ instead of going to the bars next time?"

Of course you ought to have a pretty good idea of what XYZ can be beforehand. Like with any problem you're having in a relationship, it's important that you (a) clearly identify the problem, (b) have a realistic solution and (c) don't make the problem about the person you're dating if it's not explicitly about them (as it's not here).