re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle

Start by having plan B's in place where y'all lhave to be somewhere else and don't stay long.

Or have something better to do and limit your time around this guy.

But from what I've read, this situation is forcing you to examine your weak social skills and work on them. You do come off in this thread with a pretty over inflated self worth that wants a lot of attention from the girl and her group.

This makes you too high maintenance in my book. Back up and chill. Check out the art of charm or something like thst and work on your social skills.

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BTW I'm not like some bitchy cuckold, guys. Our sex is fantastic - and she spends most nights with me already. I am not insecure in the nuts and bolts of our relationship, just the 3 times in 4 weeks of being exclusive that we've hung out around this prick.

I agree that I'm insecure and unhappy and beta in this one situation and I"m trying to figure out how best to handle it.

So far the options seem to be:

A) break up with her
B) Ignore him/it and try to improve the situation subtly next time
C) confront her about it

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or,

D) Just accept the fact your GF is getting slammed on the side.