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re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle
Posted on 11/24/14 at 4:44 am to Jreily85
Posted on 11/24/14 at 4:44 am to Jreily85
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Have you tried talking to her? Telling her that you're not comfortable going out with this guy often? Maybe start suggesting other places to go?
If you try to have an honest discussion with her without sounding like a jealous controlling a-hole and she still insists on being around him, then it may be time to cut her loose.
I've certainly daydreamed about this option, but isn't vocalizing my hangups going to make her even more excited and turned on about spending time with this guy? I'd clearly be elevating him above me.
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Posted on 11/24/14 at 4:45 am to SirWinston
Ask her who has a bigger dick.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 4:49 am to SirWinston
It's all about how you handle it. And it's a very tricky situation.
Start finding other shite to do. Don't necessarily come right out and discuss this guy. Just start bringing her other places. If she doesn't go along with it, then maybe discuss how you don't really know anyone and you prefer to hang out with her or introduce her to some of your friends.
If she still insists on hanging out with this guy, especially if yall are exclusive...then she is putting him before you and you need to leave her.
Start finding other shite to do. Don't necessarily come right out and discuss this guy. Just start bringing her other places. If she doesn't go along with it, then maybe discuss how you don't really know anyone and you prefer to hang out with her or introduce her to some of your friends.
If she still insists on hanging out with this guy, especially if yall are exclusive...then she is putting him before you and you need to leave her.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 4:54 am to SirWinston
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I've certainly daydreamed about this option, but isn't vocalizing my hangups going to make her even more excited and turned on about spending time with this guy? I'd clearly be elevating him above me.
No, not really. As long as you don't make it about your insecurities with the attention he gets from her, you're not elevating anyone. You have enough reasons from your descriptions if you have to explain - the guy apparently is in love with himself/has a big ego, since he always talks about himself; he's a bit of a sleaze since he just spends his time schmoozing women despite being in a relationship. He's annoying. Not wanting to hang around annoying people doesn't make you inferior to the annoying people.
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