re: anyone here go through a divorce, what helped you get through it?

I went through one three years ago and thought it was going to kill me because I didn't want it. I took that time to re-evaluate my life and who I was and fought for my kids like a mad man. Friends, family, and church helped a TON. Just live right, do right, and things will work out.

BTW, my boys live with me now and I'm married to the woman of my dreams so I'd like to think that something I did was right.