re: Can you be racist but your racism doesn't come from a place of hate?

In the whole realm of human relations there are lots of characteristics that run contrary to taste but do not involve hate.

For example, in all my years as a single male there were 3 kinds of women that I would never consider going on a date with:
fat
smokers
tattoos

But I don't hate them. I simply find them very unattractive. I don't hate any race or ethnicity.

Are there people who I do actually hate? Yes.

Lesbians (because all the workplace problems I had to deal with were instigated by lesbians).
People who drive slow in the left lane.
Foursomes that won't let me play through.