re: Can you be racist but your racism doesn't come from a place of hate?

I think you can say racist things without being a racist.

For example, say a person really has a good heart and tries to treat everybody fair, but he is out on the town with a few buddies who are lamenting the crime rates of black Americans vs. all other Americans or talking about Mexicans in a bad way, the person that treats everyone fair could utter racist comments as he is caught up in the conversation, but that wouldn't necessarily be who he is as a person.

But as to your full point, I don't think any race of people are inferior to any other race of people. That kind of thinking is Hitler like thinking imho.