re: Just hung up from the worst phone call ever

Yes. We both told her last night that she needs help and that we would help her get it. She brushed it off. I'm not in a position to force her without the wrath of her family, who clearly has to see the problem. I can't take the reins here. I can offer help (which I have) but any force would have to come from her family. My other friend has talked to her mom and she is just old school. She's embarrassed and thinks just keeping a "close eye" on her is going to fix it. They close ranks on this type of thing and despite us knowing each have other my entire life and the closeness of our families, it was very clear help or even discussion was not appreciated.