re: Booty calls gone wrong: dos and don'ts

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As someone who's ex gf drove 40 miles 3x a week for the D as a booty call role, your rules suck nuts.

Booty calls.can end up making decent relationships actually, not lasting, but if a girl is fun and loves the D, why wouldn't you want to spend more time with her. Especially since the breakup is easy as goodbye.

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For me the rule in question is #1 for a reason. Booty call buddies aren't relationships and shouldn't be thought of in that way. This is complicated but matters of the heart are never easily explained. But if you fall for your booty call buddy and the feeling is mutual then more power to you. However, for me once I am or someone I have hooked up with is relegated to the role of booty call it means there is not long term potential. It is like having an affair without the SO. BTW, I don't recommend doing the booty call buddy thing with someone who is in a serious relationship. Truthfully I am not sure you had a booty call buddy based on the fact that it was your ex-gf and all. Sounds like a long-distance relationship, albeit only 45 minutes away.