re: Yahoo article on Alfred Blue comments

Now that I apologized for my joke, I do have a serious comment:

Blue's comment was not one of hatefulness or intended harm, but one of ignorance. He never said he had any sort of hate for homosexuals, but merely associated being gay with being a sissy.

From where does this misconception come?

We all know that there are exceptions, as I know some homosexual men who could kick my arse (I know a few homosexual women who probably could also). However, a large percentage of gay men who are openly gay portray themselves as very effiminate and sissy.

With such self-portrayal, is it Blue's fault for thinking this way about homosexual men? Whether wrong or right, this is not an uncommon perception of gay men. I would say the gay community owns at least some of the blame for this perception. Why do they allow the effiminate gays to be representative of their lifestyle. If I were a gay man, it would piss me off for other gays to act that way, just as it pisses me off when other southerners continue to add amunition to the incorrect perception of us.
Perhaps more masculine gay men should come out to do away with this perception. Perhaps more athletes coming out would help. I don't know, but I do think the gay community has perpetuated this perception.
I have never understood unnaturally effiminate gay men anyway. If you are trying to attract other gay men, why act like a woman? If a man is attracted to this effiminate type, he should just find a woman who enjoys anal.
In short, Blue wasn't hating on anyone just because he can look at another man's hairy arse and find love (thanks Sam Kennison), he just doesn't want a sissy on his team. His mistake was his generalization, but thanks to the gay community, every gay he knows of may be a sissy.