re: Spinoff from the budget app thread. How do you handle accounts and payments with SO?

We each have our own accounts in the same bank that we can both see. Make all the money she pays all the bills. I give her specific instructions of how much needs to go to savings each month and how much needs to go to taxes account each month (a lot of self employed income).

She isn’t allowed to deviate without discussion and she does all the house work. It is a weird dynamic but it works for us. It sheds all of the thoughts and brain cycles of paying bills and moving money around off of me so I can focus on just making money and during my down time actually recovering