re: For the married OTers, do you do girls trips or guys trips?

It depends on where the trip is and who is going. Also, an affair can hit anyone at anytime, no matter how strong your marriage is and no matter how much you trust your spouse. Keep that in mind.

Put it another way, how many middle aged Baws are getting dressed up nice for dinner on Guys weekend after a full day of golfing or fishing? Best case is Khaki’s and a polo.

Now, look at 40 something women who are reasonably attractive. They are dressing up nice for dinner on girls weekend out. Nothing skanky but presentable. Perhaps they plan on dancing. Add in some alcohol, nothing crazy, and you’ll have every Jody between 25 -65 at the bar eying their table to see if they can start a conversation.

If one of the group is toxic, , now you have that friend trying to invite Jody and crew to the VRBO.