re: Has the dating scene gotten worse lately?

All this BBC bs that some of you guys are fascinated with is disturbing and played out. Some of ya’ll Need to just drop that crap, it’s like some folks fail. Black chicks have hit on this white dude for years.

I’ve known white girls that messed around with some brothers before & now won’t ever date a black dude again. Everyone has their reasoning.

Same thing with automatically accusing someone of being a gold Digger just because the guy is a little older. Maybe the older guy has some game, maybe he knows how to lay the pipe, maybe he’s super funny like a stand up
Comedian.

One thing that hasn’t been said on here is that with Latinas in South & Central America, they LOVE AMERICAN GRINGOS in specific, and it’s not just because they want to move to the USA.

It’s because the Latinos (the men) are overwhelmingly: (but not all of course)

1. Sexist - think women are below their status.
2. Possessive (treat women as possessions)
3. Disrespectful to their woman (almost look to them as a personal maid &
Servant)
4. They are KNOWN to be serial cheaters and often don’t even try to hide it, they could have 2-3-4 different women and think it’s acceptable.
5. Often physical and super heavy drinkers.

6. Large portion of foreign LATINO’s (some of yall don’t realize the difference in “O”
And “A”) Latina is female, but the males are straight up DOGS to their women.

*** all of which makes it So Easy for a gringo American to over achieve quality wise down there.

I had a Honduran that originally moved to L.A. Cali when she was 17 and ended up in Atl and now she owns her own business (makes her own money) etc.. self-made, gorgeous, show-stopper looks, we got engaged and then split up (long story and was mostly my fault). She is Mega-feisty, OCD, and a temper that would scare me at times, and mega-jealous, BUT on the flip side, the most caring, loving. Serving, old fashioned soul that you’ll ever meet. Treated me like a king & this woman could have any guy she wants, real Talk.

After I gave it some time after the break-up, I decided I’ll find one from down there & now talking with a Venezualen that lives in Colombia. Fine as frog hairs & exact same benefits as my old one, but she’s substantially younger.

They are out there, you just have to meet them online and then make a couple trips and see if you have some Chemistry & you can find a solid woman that just wants to be treated with dignity, respect, honor and looking for a change of scenery and to get away from Latino men down there, they will jump into Your arms like your a life raft.

But some of you people just generically categorize or place these auto-responses “oh bbc”, “oh, gold-digger”, “oh, they just want a green card”, your ignorant at best.

You are the clowns that haven’t a clue on different cultures, woman’s needs, and how to Win a woman over. All I have ever dated is 7 to 10’s in my life. real talk,

Resume:
did it when I had no money or I had money.
Swing a BWC
below 6’ tall
I can make em’ laugh (this is key, have a sense of humor, I’ve known some ugly dudes with no money land hot chicks because they can make them Laugh).

[b]Summary:
OP, I don’t know if you’re adventurous or not? But if you are and have a sack, get online and find you a Latina. Like anything else, watch out for the hustles. Vet them, put on your profile that you need someone that speaks at least a some English and willing to learn & tell them you want to learn Spanish. You can teach each other. And flat out, put in your profile that if the chemistry is right and we have a connection, must be willing to move
To the USA.

You’ve got a better shot at this than finding a standard American chick these days. I’ll never go back to That again. It’s a shame, I blame a lot of it on social media and keeping up with the Jones etc…