re: Do you like most people you meet?

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This is true for me also. Keep it small. Keep it simple. Less conflict. Less obligations.

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Exactly.

I am an introvert irl and all manner of social functions can be very draining for me so I’m pretty selective in what I choose to do.

My husband is a huge extrovert and because of what he does he knows a lot of ppl in our community and is involved in a lot of social stuff.

It took us a while to figure out our social rhythm, but I don’t go to most of the functions we’re invited to. And after all these years he feels comfortable going without me bc he knows he’ll be chatting it up all night

Side note- when our friends send me/us the invites will usually include “we know you’re not coming but we’d love to see you’