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re: Starting Over After Divorce
Posted on 2/18/24 at 10:57 pm to Nelson Biederman IV
Posted on 2/18/24 at 10:57 pm to Nelson Biederman IV
Lots of I’s in your post, but only one mention of your son.
Shouldn’t you be more worried about how your divorce impacts his life???
Shouldn’t you be more worried about how your divorce impacts his life???
Posted on 2/18/24 at 11:08 pm to WinnaSez
Buddy, there’s a reason I’m only asking about this one aspect of moving on. I was in a relationship with his mother for 14 years and was desperately trying to spend the rest of my life unhappy so that he would have an intact family. I obsess over how this will affect him. I just wanted to hear some stories.
Posted on 2/21/24 at 5:31 pm to WinnaSez
quote:He's 7 months old. He won't know any different. Splitting every other weekend between mom and dad.
Shouldn’t you be more worried about how your divorce impacts his life???
Like another poster said...make him your focus right now. Wouldn't even worry about the dating scene until you get into a routine. You'll have every other weekend for going out on a dinner date or even a weeknight here and there. You need time to adjust, get comfortable with yourself, being on your own and being a divorced dad.
And you're only 40, you're not dead. I'm in my early 50's and single, divorced for a long time, kids are grown. I don't date very much, it's rare, and I do a bunch of things on my own.
I know it's easier said than done but, do your own thing and don't dwell on it. Broaden your hobbies.
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