re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

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Find a woman that is a decision maker.

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Yep. Or someone who doesn't care.

I'm very type A, but I honestly just wasn't picky about anything wedding related. I picked the best vendors I knew of and told them to just.. do their thing. That's what they're there for. Who cares what specific flowers they bring? They're not going to show up with ugly crap. They're well reviewed professionals. Tell them what you like and let them take over.

I always found it bonkers when other engaged people would ask me if I was stressed about some stupidly small thing like where the bars would be set up or something.

I just didn't see where it was important to bother with stressing over the details when someone else was being paid to do it and knows what they're doing.

We didn't even doing a tasting of our food options or the cake Again, professionals with hundreds of glowing reviews. What is tasting their product going to change? Nothing.