re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

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Now that it's real she's so overwhelmed with trying to plan anything she won't start with anything. I'm not pressuring her, I'm just listening.

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You need to get used to making an executive decision and dealing with the consequences afterwards. And if she asks for your opinion, make a decision, don't say "I don't care" or "I don't know". She might immediately disagree but at least it gets the ball rolling.