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Fast forward 30 years, she's enveloped in the kind of female emotional self-obsession that overtakes women as they age, wherein you are required to journey into her unhappiness and insecurities 10 times a day. She will offer her opinion on your every action, whether you want her to or not, and it will always fail to meet her standards. Your ideas will become irrelevant. See, she doesn't share your love of peace, she wants you to be hands on 24/7/365 to assist her in working her shite out. See you exist, to help her on her journey. Sure, she will say the right things and paint herself in a flattering light, but men are really just there to be a woman's lifeboat. Her job is to capsize it and your job as a man is to keep it upright. Suddenly the most important thing is how you make her feel about whatever is on her mind on a given day-how willing you are to be her human Kleenex (trust me they aren't ever satisfied), You will have NO peace because that will interfere with her beloved journey into self. Your job is to provide the stability AND be the manager of her emotions. Which as you will discover, is the entire reason for a relationship. Her precious feelings. Managing her feelings will become your fulltime job. With the nature of women in mind, there is zero reason to marry (or even do more than date casually and specifically for sex and companionship) other than having a family. I acknowledge the unicorn women who I am told by so many youngsters here that are said to exist, I just have never seen one myself in the wild. And I'd like those guys to get back to me when she's 50, hyper-critical of your every move, wrinkled up, and on 3 anti-depressants, seeing a psychologist, hates virtually everybody outside of her immediate circle, in thrall to NPR and MSNBC, and can't go 30 seconds without unburdening all her deep thoughts on whatever man she is currently victimizing.

google Borderline Personality Disorder and start reading.

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Posted by Lsupimp

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Posted on 8/7/23 at 11:50 am to Sam Quint

See, I think it's far broader than legitimate personality disorders. I think it's female NATURE. They are solipsists by nature. They can't escape it. It's their self-built prison cell. They want you to do ALL the heavy lifting. Ok cool, that's our male nature (before 15 minutes ago), But they also DEMAND that we entertain their every thought and emotion as if we actually give a frick. Newsflash ladies, we don't. We want to frick you. We want you to make our dinner. We want you to pour us a drink. We want you to look sexy for us. We want cleavage and painted nails and lipstick and blowjobs. We want you to give us a boner. We want you to work your shite out quietly when we watch football games and Youtube videos about aircraft carriers and engineering disasters. We have ZERO interest in the 378787 ways we are failing you by not agreeing to help you resolve the 43573635 ways you are aggrieved because Daddy didn't hug you and so-and-so undermined you in a social setting or at work. frick that and pity to the men who make the decision to endure that.

Fix me Daddy. Fix me. All day Fix me Daddy.
Oh hell no. Imma watch the game. Fix your fricking self.