re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20

Been here and it is an emotional roller coaster. I had all the same thoughts and it was lonely and kids with her.

All I can offer is no one can take away what your feeling and going through. However, it gets better and there will be a time you are grateful she did this. Being single is so much better.

Just go take care of you and continue doing healthy workout/eating/hobbies/hanging out, etc. Try to limit your alone time, but if you have to be alone, don't just sit in silence and contemplate.

It's been said many of times, but time does in fact heal. Even with kids I rarely even think of her, and really a lot of memories have faded or gone.

Good luck

If you have alcohol issues go fix that and don't get into any other relationships till you have a healthy way of dealing with life stresses.