re: An adult who goes to Disney 3-4 times a year..

I go about once a year and own a DVC contract. But also take another vacation to somewhere else in the country every year. I always say Disney is what you make of it. If you go and you're just fighting crowds the whole time, waking up at the arse crack of dawn and staying in a park until it closes, trying to get everything done, etc etc, it won't be that enjoyable.