re: Do you feel like you sacrificed your personality for your wife, family, career?

of course I'm not me from high school. I don't think it's because I've given anything up, it's because I've changed as a person which is to be expected. I'm sure there are some people who never leave their initial comfort zone and never change.... you could still be the person that enjoys metal and video games...but what if it was at the expense of never knowing your children? We don't have room in our lives for everything....we can only hope that what were left with is what we want....you said it's a good life so it seems you have