re: How do people cope with separation or divorce?

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She suggested marriage counseling a couple of times and my stupid stubborn arse said no, and we could handle it ourselves. Obviously now it’s a huge regret.

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Go to marriage counseling anyway….even if by yourself. You will learn from it so you can grow into the better version of yourself. Then you’ll be more ready for any future relationships.

You don’t want to repeat the same mistakes next time. And if you don’t find out what they were and change them, you will repeat them and find yourself back in this same spot in five years.