re: How do people cope with separation or divorce?

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The way I look at it is I gave my word in front of a lot of human beings AND ALSO in front of the allmighty God that I would stay together with this person.

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She could leave you and there's nothing that you could do about it.

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This is true. I was and am against divorce (for reasons I have stated before). But it doesn't matter what I believe and hold sacred to me. If the other person wants out, they're going to get out and there is nothing I can do about it. I've said before that I think divorce is one of the most selfish things any person can ever do, especially if children are involved, but that's my opinion and others are entitled to think entirely different.