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re: I'm not crazy, you're crazy - Borderline Personality Disorder
Posted on 2/16/23 at 9:32 am to Whosonfirst
Posted on 2/16/23 at 9:32 am to Whosonfirst
This.
You cannot help or fix her. You cannot affect her decision-making or her rage, impulses, or pettiness.
You cannot teach her how to manage her money. No matter how much or how little it is.
You cannot "convince" them to stay at a job.
You cannot have any real conversation with them that will stick.
For the sake of enjoying your life, move on from this relationship. Block all forms of contact. Let her torture someone else.
Cause she will.
You cannot help or fix her. You cannot affect her decision-making or her rage, impulses, or pettiness.
You cannot teach her how to manage her money. No matter how much or how little it is.
You cannot "convince" them to stay at a job.
You cannot have any real conversation with them that will stick.
For the sake of enjoying your life, move on from this relationship. Block all forms of contact. Let her torture someone else.
Cause she will.
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Posted on 2/16/23 at 10:54 am to wheelz007
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For the sake of enjoying your life, move on from this relationship. Block all forms of contact. Let her torture someone else. Cause she will.
Unfortunately, the "someone else" will absolutely be the OP's children when they get old enough.
With these people it's always someone else's fault. The kids will be blamed for the divorce, etc.
Good luck OP in dealing with this. If you can't get her in couple's therapy, please work with someone on how to create boundaries for yourself. Don't take the bait. Ever. Remain neutral. Don't feed the bear.
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