re: What caused this generation of 49er females? (4's who think that they are 9's)

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The men would tell the wife if she was getting fat and she should work on that.

Guys are scared to do that now as they are not men and they are afraid of losing half their shite.

My father was not afraid to tell mother if she was eating too much. She never got fat and still eats like a bird.

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Our legal system now says if a guy says this to a wife, the wife can leave, take half his stuff, dramatically reduce his access to spend time with his children, social media will shame him, and the woman knows if single mom life (which is glorified) gets too hard, the government and/or another man (or woman) will bail her out.

Your mother had no ability or safety net to leave your father.

Different times.