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re: Women who went all out on a Big Wedding only to get divorced within 2 years?

Posted on 3/9/15 at 3:48 pm to
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79212 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 3:48 pm to
50-75k for a wedding is pretty easy to do.

I think the older you get, the less inclined I am to spend that kind of money on a wedding, but it doesn't strike me as that abnormal.
Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
3135 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 3:53 pm to
Luckily my GF and I are on the same page about weddings. We just want small & elegant with only close family & friends. So probably less than 30 guests. She's not big on flashy, showy jewelry either so no big diamond either. In fact, I don't even think she wants a diamond. I definitely have a keeper
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103071 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 3:56 pm to
Wow. you didn't have any indication before you went through with the marriage? how quickly did things get rocky after the honeymoon?
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32460 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 3:57 pm to
quote:

quote:
quote:Dude, you were complaining about THAT? You are cheap.


I took her to Destin for our honeymoon


So you're definitely cheap

I only paid for a small portion of my wedding and spent more than 3k.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 3:57 pm to
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She's a ragging slut
Did this happen over night after the wedding day?


I doubt it. Females are almost all sluts for the most part. It's really hard to find one that isn't. If and when you do, you lock her down.
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
12818 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 4:00 pm to
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So you're definitely cheap





We had a small wedding, neither of us wanted to make a huge deal out of it and just invited our closest family and 2 of our closest friends. My dad paid for a nice rehearsal the night before and mom paid for honeymoon. It was a quick wedding and everybody was able to leave and get on with their lives
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 4:00 pm to
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I definitely have a keeper
What's her all look like?
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32460 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 4:01 pm to
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We had a small wedding, neither of us wanted to make a huge deal out of it and just invited our closest family and 2 of our closest friends. My dad paid for a nice rehearsal the night before and mom paid for honeymoon. It was a quick wedding and everybo


Just busting your balls
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
12818 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 4:03 pm to
My wife still gets a kick out of it and messes with me. Fortunately she isn't a materialistic person either though
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
34377 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 4:05 pm to
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eloping sounds more and more intriguing when I imagine myself walking down an aisle with people staring at me expecting me to smile.
That's like 15 seconds of the whole thing. You can have a 15-20 minutes ceremony and the rest is just a party.

I don't really like being the center of attention either but it didn't matter that day. I didn't go around the room and tell everyone hello. I let them come to me if they wanted. I had a good time and everyone else did too.
This post was edited on 3/9/15 at 4:06 pm
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
78086 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 4:05 pm to
we drank margs earlier in the day, got a straight shave at an old school barber, changed clothes and met my good friend (also a county commissioner) who married us for $50 in the park at sunset.

he wouldn't have charged us at all except that he is required by law to do so.


..course we had that whole prime time TV proposal thing the month before..
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
51617 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 4:06 pm to
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Damn I was bitching about the $3,000 I spent for our wedding. Guess my wife was right in saying that was actually cheap


The wife and I spent a good bit more than that and we paid for everything ourselves.















You lucky bastard!
Posted by TheChosenOne
Member since Dec 2005
18519 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 4:35 pm to
Our wedding was $60k, but my father in law's an plant operator so he makes that in 3-4 overtime shifts.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
36707 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 5:01 pm to
Not me ... think my parents spent about $6000/7000 ... small wedding ... 23+ years later all is well.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
19294 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 5:02 pm to
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I work with two Indian (dot) guys who each spent well over $100,000 on their daughter's weddings. Of course they're less likely to get divorced than a white.


The Dot would kill the bitch
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 5:03 pm to
my wife had a friend that got married with a big wedding knowing she was going to ditch the husband. She just wanted to have "a wedding"

I have never cared for her.
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 5:03 pm to
We had private wedding

Big reception.
No idea what it cost.. My dad paid.

I lol at suckers who splurge and you know sitting in pew it ain't gonna last.

I can think of at least 2 this was this case.
This post was edited on 3/9/15 at 5:09 pm
Posted by Ace Midnight
Between sanity and madness
Member since Dec 2006
89531 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 5:04 pm to
I spent slightly over $10k (total) for the weddings of 2 daughters. I told them, "Nobody is going to care, 10 years from now, how much/little I spent. You'll be together (in which case, the money doesn't matter) or not (in which case, "Thank G-d we didn't overspend"). I'm not borrowing money or paying for people to get $hitfaced drunk."

I offered both of them a bribe to elope. Neither took me up on it. One did get divorced after 3 years. (Thank G-d we didn't overspend.)

Posted by Grim
Member since Dec 2013
12302 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 5:17 pm to
Some women are just so infatuated with the idea of having a day where everyone is looking at them and talking about them, when in reality a wedding is supposed to be about the COUPLE starting a life together and celebrating that. You really find out who the attention whores are when they start talking about weddings. I'm sure when I find the one I'm going to want to make that day special for her but when a girl is already thinking/obsessing over her wedding before even meeting her groom that's a major red flag for me
Posted by Navytiger74
Member since Oct 2009
50458 posts
Posted on 3/9/15 at 5:25 pm to
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Buddy and his wife turned down $30k cash and a small wedding to spend $50-60k on a wedding.


Narcissism. And that isn't even crazy compared to what some spend. Nothing says "we really love each other" like forcing your parents to take out a new line of credit to pack a reception hall full of friends and family that mostly can't stand each other.
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