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re: Pregnant with no insurance, help

Posted on 7/22/16 at 7:46 am to
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
84882 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 7:46 am to
So who is the father? The ex?

There is a ton of misinformation or outright lies this woman has given the OP. She has had ample time to get her affairs in order and unless her employer truly lied to her about the qualifying event, then she's up shite creek.

The silver lining might be that if it is a healthy pregnancy, and she isn't due until 2017, perhaps she can go to one appointment out of pocket and then defer everything else to 2017 when she's on her own insurance. Don't mistake that for medical advice, but in my experience the check ups during the pregnancy are largely useless in most cases, but obviously they're looking out for other risks.

Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
84882 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 7:47 am to
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You nailed it. This chick is simply a frick up at life. She can have that baby in a ditch for all I care.


Wow. You sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders.
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
126962 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 7:48 am to
Tell her to buy insurance through an Obamacare exchange. Pre-exisiting conditions don't matter.
Posted by Forkbeard3777
Chicago
Member since Apr 2013
3841 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 7:48 am to
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You nailed it. This chick is simply a frick up at life. She can have that baby in a ditch for all I care.

Posted by Rockbrc
Attic
Member since Nov 2015
7917 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 7:48 am to
Girl that works for us has a similar income and pops 'em out like a tennis ball cannon. Never known of her having to pay a dime for health care. Not sure how she gets by without paying but she visits the DHS office about every month for paperwork of some sort.
Posted by swanny297
NELA
Member since Oct 2013
2189 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 7:49 am to
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, but his company dropped all spouses who could get insurance through their own work


Life changing event she shouldn't have to wait for open enrollment
Posted by Last call
On the lake
Member since Oct 2012
992 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 7:55 am to
She can go to Conway.
Posted by Forkbeard3777
Chicago
Member since Apr 2013
3841 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 7:56 am to
OP, stay away. Set her up with some advice and contacts and let that be the end of it. She's going to try and drag you into her disarray, misery, and dysfunction. Hang around long enough, she'll be moving in your house, you'll be footing for the kid, etc.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61247 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 7:57 am to
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She doesn't have insurance???? I thought Obama fixed that


I bet there's a lot of people who would rather just pay the fine than the ridiculous costs of insurance.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18668 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 7:59 am to
quote:

How is that possible? I thought Obamacare fixed insurance problems for everyone, including pre-existing conditions?


Good point. Under Obamacare it is her body, her choice of insurance.
Posted by Passing Wind
Dutchtown
Member since Apr 2015
4137 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 8:01 am to
Insurance isn't about "I haven't been to the doctor in eight years"....its for when (God forbid) you get into a car wreck, have medical issues or just require a daily medicine and items like one surgery is $150k or a prescription is $3k a month. This type of thinking is why our tax dollars are paying for so much medical care. Be an adult and at least get major medical insurance.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20447 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 8:08 am to
OP you need to stay away. She has had plenty of opportunities to do this properly and has been lazy every time. After you have your first kid you can get one of those mechanical birth controls that are basically a guarantee to not get pregnant. 2ndly she's not freaking Single and that screws her up but is her own doing. Lastly, basic high deductible healthcare can be had on the open market for less than $100/ month to anyone under 30 at anytime that wants it. She failed to do this, it's all on her.

She is going to suck you dry OP and spit you out because she's too lazy to do anything meaningful for herself.
This post was edited on 7/22/16 at 8:08 am
Posted by Perrydawg
Middle Ga Area
Member since Jan 2014
4769 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 8:09 am to
she got knocked up by a student didn't she?
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
66928 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 8:14 am to
Abort
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68226 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 8:18 am to
She's the problem with this country.
Posted by Mr Personality
Bangkok
Member since Mar 2014
27364 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 8:21 am to
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Pregnant with no insurance


Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
33937 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 8:23 am to
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OP, stay away. Set her up with some advice and contacts and let that be the end of it. She's going to try and drag you into her disarray, misery, and dysfunction. Hang around long enough, she'll be moving in your house, you'll be footing for the kid, etc.




This. I get you care and that's a great quality. The thing is, it isn't hard to not get pregnant. It really isn't. She made the bed, she needs to lie in it. Unfortunately, that usually translates into the kid not having a chance in life.
Posted by sealawyer
Coonassganistan
Member since Nov 2012
3138 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 8:32 am to
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She is still married to her ex (complicated) to get his insurance


*Record Scratch*

Is he daddy? If not she did this shite to herself trying to beat the system.

Dude, if you aren't actually the dad run. She's lining you up to put your name on the certificate.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
39114 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 8:42 am to
She is still lying to you about how much she makes. She sees you as a huge booger, ripe for the picking. Run like a scalded monkey, away from this succubus.

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Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35115 posts
Posted on 7/22/16 at 8:43 am to
She sounds hot. Is she morally opposed to sucking dick for cash?
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