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re: If you had a first time in your life "amazing connection" with a girl

Posted on 7/8/14 at 6:00 am to
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 6:00 am to
Facebook friend her and send her a link to this thread. She'll find it endearing and not creepy or pathetic at all.
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 6:02 am to
quote:

standing in line inside at a chevron for 5 minutes completely sober


I need to know if she was also completely sober at 3:27 in the morning before I can give advice.
Posted by Akit1
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jul 2006
7605 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 6:15 am to
First and foremost stop that thinking of "I always blow it". You have to have more cofidence than that.

Next you're the Lambo in a sea of Civics. She should be honored to hang with you. Bottom line don't put the pussy on a pedestal.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 6:18 am to
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First and foremost stop that thinking of "I always blow it".


Absolutely horrible advice. You SHOULD have this thinking at all times, because you DO always blow it. It's not your fault though, it's just part of being alive. Life is nothing more than an unbroken series of failures and pain. This new romance will end in heartache and self-loathing just like everything else will in your life (and everyone else's) until you die. Just the nature of the beast. But go out there and try to have fun.
Posted by jeff5891
Member since Aug 2011
15761 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 6:46 am to
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I think I'm going to text around 6-7 tom and invite lunch for wendesday

quote:

text
sounds gay. I'm sure she'll appreciate a text
This post was edited on 7/8/14 at 6:48 am
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
67589 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 6:53 am to
Posted by Traffic Circle
Down the Rabbit Hole
Member since Nov 2013
4242 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 6:53 am to
You met her inside a Chevron. And she gave you her number.

Hmmm .,. Certain things come to mind.

Was she buying pork rinds?
Was she buying beef jerky?
Why did she go in, and not just pump gas and leave?
Why give you a number, after what, a 2 minute conversation?

I conclude a fake number.

Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
23047 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:43 am to
Don't focus on what meal to invite her to. Just talk. Women fall in love via their ears. When the conversation is taking effort, then ask her out.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
16185 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:45 am to
Ask your wife what you should do
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
16185 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:47 am to
Dp
This post was edited on 7/8/14 at 7:48 am
Posted by BayouBandit24
Member since Aug 2010
16560 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:48 am to
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You should have texted her last night just to say good night


I kind of agree. If I met someone that late in such an unusual setting I would have maybe tried a text that night. But idk because obviously I don't have any clue about detailed and vibes you were getting.
Posted by stout
Smoking Crack with Hunter Biden
Member since Sep 2006
167200 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:49 am to
quote:

Absolutely horrible advice. You SHOULD have this thinking at all times, because you DO always blow it. It's not your fault though, it's just part of being alive. Life is nothing more than an unbroken series of failures and pain. This new romance will end in heartache and self-loathing just like everything else will in your life (and everyone else's) until you die. Just the nature of the beast. But go out there and try to have fun.



Do you need a bullet?
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34377 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:49 am to
quote:

Facebook friend her and send her a link to this thread. She'll find it endearing and not creepy or pathetic at all.

I find people who do FB creepy.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
72059 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:51 am to
You should've had sex with her right then, next to the Gobstoppers and gummy worms.
Posted by WG_Dawg
Hoover
Member since Jun 2004
86461 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:52 am to
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24 hour rule, or 3 days?


Good Lord...grown arse adults still go by these petty little things they saw in a romantic comedy a decade ago?

You're a fricking grown up! There are no "rules", call her when you want to. Or text her, whatever. When you feel like initiating contact, do it. Geez.
Posted by Odinson
Asgard
Member since Apr 2014
2751 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:54 am to
She probably already met another guy at the Shell Station.
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
35540 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:55 am to
I agree. Also, girls know what the 3 day rule is. So if you wait 3 days, all that tells her is "Oh, he went by the 3 day rule lol." Not "Oh, he's so cool and busy, he couldn't even call me for 3 whole days!"

Posted by Motorboat
At the camp
Member since Oct 2007
22671 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:56 am to
Goddamit.

Do not text her. Call her. Make a date for a weekday night so that you do not appear like you have nothing going on the weekend. If she thinks you have weekend plans, you are more interesting. Take her out to a decent casual restaurant (not a chain). At the end of the night if your giddiness hasn't completely ran her off, give her a kiss on the cheek and tell her you will talk soon.

Do not have the sects on the first date. Keep her on a string to keep up her interest level.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101917 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:58 am to
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I agree. Also, girls know what the 3 day rule is. So if you wait 3 days, all that tells her is "Oh, he went by the 3 day rule lol." Not "Oh, he's so cool and busy, he couldn't even call me for 3 whole days!"


This is why you wait 7 days. And say you found her number while cleaning out your wallet.

Except it's probably in his phone, so that won't work. Dammit.
Posted by LSUvegasbombed
Red Stick
Member since Sep 2013
15464 posts
Posted on 7/8/14 at 7:58 am to
well said

If she pushes for sects, are you really going to turn it down?
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