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re: If you had a first time in your life "amazing connection" with a girl
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:00 am to Sampson
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:00 am to Sampson
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standing in line inside at a chevron for 5 minutes completely sober and she gave you her number, when do you text/call her to meet up again? I want to call her at 8am tom and invite her to breakfast. Should I wait till lunch, 24 hour rule, or 3 days? I want to look back on this thread years from now when we're happily married and laugh. But seriously what do I do here so I don't blow it like always do? Please be sincere guys, I really don't need y'all's bull crap right now.
If it's a real connection, and you can tell, ask her out by the end of tomorrow. Here's what you do. Invite her to something you want to do, on your terms. Make sure it's something fun and not something too "date"-ish. Mini-golf, bowling, a baseball game, go-karts, a concert, ect. Avoid dinner and a movie for now. Make sure it's something YOU want to do. If you try to blow smoke up her arse on the first date with a fancy dinner, she'll smell desperation from a mile a way. Grab food at a local joint you frequent (not too divey, but no where you couldn't show up to in shorts and a t-shirt) and just have fun with it. The key for this date is to show her that you're a fun guy who is relaxed enough to show her who he really is. This should make her a lot more comfortable with you and allow the two of you to get to know one-another while having fun.
DON'T CALL HER OR TEXT HER UNLESS YOU ARE ASKING HER OUT ON A DATE for the first couple weeks. You can respond to her texts and IM's, and call her back if she calls you, but don't initiate. Don't wait too long between doing so if you can avoid it or else she'll start to think you don't like her at all. Making her wait a little will make her wonder why you aren't calling and will make her interested in finding out (i.e. she'll be more attracted to you because women are weird).
If you have any more questions, feel free to ask. I followed these instructions when I had an instant connection with a girl I met at a bar one night (not that kind of connection). Over 3 years later and we're still dating.
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Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:00 am to LSUvegasbombed
Pics??
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:01 am to LSUvegasbombed
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If she pushes for sects, are you really going to turn it down?
Absolutely. Shows strength, confidence, restraint and that he really doesn't need sex because he's getting it from all the Chevron hoes.
also, the use of "amazing connection" is retarded. If the OP never uses this word again, he might get some pussy.
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:01 am to Sampson
You should have called her as soon as you got on your car and said , "I couldn't wait to talk to you any longer " in a joking fashion.
At least then you'd have avoided this internal conflict ( and possibly realized she gave you the wrong number earlier on)
At least then you'd have avoided this internal conflict ( and possibly realized she gave you the wrong number earlier on)
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:02 am to Motorboat
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Absolutely. Shows strength, confidence, restraint and that he really doesn't need sex because he's getting it from all the Chevron hoes.
Turn a woman down for sex once and she'll never turn you down again. It's a power play. Also, since it's early in the relationship, it shows that you respect her and see her as more than just a sexual object. It means she will trust you more and when ya'll do hook up, she'll be willing to do way more kinky stuff.
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:03 am to Sampson
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she gave you her number, when do you text/call her to meet up again?
This is where you already fricked up. Once she puts her number in your phone you call/text her on the spot so she can have your number.
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:03 am to Sampson
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I want to call her at 8am tom
What in the retarded frick, man
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:03 am to jeff5891
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sounds gay. I'm sure she'll appreciate a text
It's not 1950 old timer. The first time you ever communicate with someone (not face to face I mean), there's nothing wrong with a text.
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:04 am to Sampson
Worrying about how long to wait to call a girl who gave you her number is the most beta of all the moves.
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:05 am to kingbob
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DON'T CALL HER OR TEXT HER UNLESS YOU ARE ASKING HER OUT ON A DATE for the first couple weeks.
please dont ask he out on a first date through a text. that is pretty impersonal and makes you seem like you are afraid of human interaction.
how hard is it to call her and say "hey, it was nice meeting you last night. I'm headed to ________ tomorrow night and wanted to know if you are free and wanted to join."
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I followed these instructions when I had an instant connection with a girl I met at a bar one night (not that kind of connection). Over 3 years later and we're still dating.
she will cheat on you. not many lasting relationships start with "we met at a bar..."
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:06 am to When in Rome
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Also, girls know what the 3 day rule is. So if you wait 3 days, all that tells her is "Oh, he went by the 3 day rule lol." Not "Oh, he's so cool and busy, he couldn't even call me for 3 whole days!"
Yep. I'm not a girl, but I imagine that a girl's thought process would be like "oh, he obviously doesn't care enough about me or hasn't thought about me to respond in a timely manner, so there's no chance I'll ever be having sex with him".
Rome, as a female...tell us what is the minimum time YOU personally would want to have as a grace period before contact? Yes yes, I know I just said there are no 'rules' or whatever and I still stand by that, I'm just asking what you personally think is the borderline between "awww how sweet he's already texted me" and "geez that was quick, seems a little clingy.."
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:07 am to kingbob
I'm glad we have so many super swag pick up artist on this board, I don't know what we would do without their worldly advice....
Kingbob, aren't you the unfortunate looking one that claims to have dated nothing but dimes due to your swag and knowledge of females but have lived in ascension parish most of your life where there isn't a such thing as a dime?
Kingbob, aren't you the unfortunate looking one that claims to have dated nothing but dimes due to your swag and knowledge of females but have lived in ascension parish most of your life where there isn't a such thing as a dime?
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:09 am to Displaced
I think you misread my statement. Call her to ask her out. Don't just text her for no reason unless she texts you first. Ruins the mystery of the date. If ya'll have told each other your life stories before ever going on a date, the two of you will have nothing to talk about.
I appreciate your concern, but I don't think I have to worry. She was never much of a bar fly. Her friends dragged her there that night (it was literally the only time she went to a bar that whole school year) to see a band that had a high school classmate in it playing as part of an all local band showcase. The band I was playing in happened to be playing in the same show. Kind of a unique situation.
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she will cheat on you. not many lasting relationships start with "we met at a bar..."
I appreciate your concern, but I don't think I have to worry. She was never much of a bar fly. Her friends dragged her there that night (it was literally the only time she went to a bar that whole school year) to see a band that had a high school classmate in it playing as part of an all local band showcase. The band I was playing in happened to be playing in the same show. Kind of a unique situation.
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:10 am to SuperSaint
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Kingbob, aren't you the unfortunate looking one that claims to have dated nothing but dimes due to your swag and knowledge of females but have lived in ascension parish most of your life where there isn't a such thing as a dime?
I import my dimes from Acadiana, and yes
I also agree, there are no dimes in the AP. My high school yearbook looks like the lineup for the Westminster Kennel Club.
This post was edited on 7/8/14 at 8:11 am
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:10 am to SuperSaint
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:10 am to SuperSaint
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:11 am to Sampson
If you haven't already, text her.just to make sure she didn't give you a fake number. That being said, if it is her, take her to lunch and see if she is stil as great as she was last night. Then you can fall in love. Just don't get p-whipped too quickly.
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:14 am to NoShow
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That being said, if it is her, take her to lunch and see if she is stil as great as she was last night.
Horrible advise. Never do a day date for a first date unless it's a sporting event or something manly. Unless you want to spend the next 3 years shoe shopping and hearing about how her a-hole ex-con boyfriend was such a jerk to her AGAIN while she cries on her shoulder, I think you can do better than lunch.
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:14 am to NoShow
I always love reading threads where OT Casanovas can give their input on making panties wet.
Posted on 7/8/14 at 8:16 am to hendersonshands
I ain't much on Casanova
Me and Romeo ain't never been friends...
Me and Romeo ain't never been friends...
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