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re: Dying Father Walks His 11-Year-Old Daughter Down the Aisle

Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:10 pm to
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
12343 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:10 pm to
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I know right? He didn't have his children while he was younger like he was supposed to, right? Why should this be a sad situation? He had it coming to him.


It has nothing to do with his age or even the details of the story. I don't understand why people get emotional when they read any story that's labeled as "sad", unless it reminds them of a depressing situation they went through themselves.
Posted by sicboy
Because Awesome
Member since Nov 2010
77579 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:16 pm to
I hope the apathy some posters show towards people other than themselves is just internet posturing.
Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
21836 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:20 pm to
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I hope the sanctimony some posters show towards people other than themselves is just internet posturing.

Posted by tigerlaw
Madisonville
Member since Mar 2004
791 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:22 pm to
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It has nothing to do with his age or even the details of the story. I don't understand why people get emotional when they read any story that's labeled as "sad", unless it reminds them of a depressing situation they went through themselves.


It's empathy. BTW...lack of empathy is a symptom of narcissistic personality disorder.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260225 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:22 pm to
quote:


It has nothing to do with his age or even the details of the story. I don't understand why people get emotional when they read any story that's labeled as "sad", unless it reminds them of a depressing situation they went through themselves.


A kit is about to lose her father, and he did something special for her. It's human to feel for her. Most people have very human emotions.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260225 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:23 pm to
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I hope the apathy some posters show towards people other than themselves is just internet posturing.


Some, probably. I know some people who have absolutely no empathy though.
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
33885 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:25 pm to
Good thinking. Let's show those heartless bastards by throwing generalizations at them.
Posted by TypoKnig
Member since Aug 2011
8928 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:25 pm to
In Turkey Creek Tiger's defense, he just said that he couldn't understand how people got emotional in response to posters stating that the article made them cry. He didn't say anything about not feeling sad or not feeling sorry for the daughter.
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76270 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:29 pm to
Y'all are a bunch of weeping coozeboxes who prob didnt get laid until you were 14 and think waterboarding is tough. Wtf happened to the OT?
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
12343 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:30 pm to
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In Turkey Creek Tiger's defense, he just said that he couldn't understand how people got emotional in response to posters stating that the article made them cry. He didn't say anything about not feeling sad or not feeling sorry for the daughter.


thank you. I never said the story wasn't sad and unfortunate. I just understand why so many posters get so upset and emotional except the ones who have gone thorough a similar situation
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
12343 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:31 pm to
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It's empathy. BTW...lack of empathy is a symptom of narcissistic personality disorder.


I have a lot of disorders, but narcissism isn't one of them.
Posted by ILikeLSUToo
Central, LA
Member since Jan 2008
18018 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:37 pm to
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Y'all are a bunch of weeping coozeboxes who prob didnt get laid until you were 14 and think waterboarding is tough. Wtf happened to the OT?

^ looks like it's still alive and well
Posted by Grrrl
Member since Sep 2007
52511 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:37 pm to
I lost my dad at 21(he was 55). I don't look forward to having a wedding bc he won't be there to give me away, but him never being able to meet the guy I marry, kids I have, etc sucks even more.

This girl won't have him around for much (won't teach her to drive, see her graduate HS/college, etc)... It's a sweet gesture/memory she will be able to have
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
12343 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:39 pm to
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I lost my dad at 21(he was 55). I don't look forward to having a wedding bc he won't be there to give me away, but him never being able to meet the guy I marry, kids I have, etc sucks even more.

This girl won't have him around for much (won't teach her to drive, see her graduate HS/college, etc)... It's a sweet gesture/memory she will be able to have


Now I understand completely why this story makes you emotional. It's very similar to your own.
Posted by Grrrl
Member since Sep 2007
52511 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:43 pm to
Oh. I never said this story makes me emotional. I just understand why they would do it.

Had I known my dad was going to die when he did, and he offered something like this I would have preferred him write letters to me that I could read at those milestone moments. Having his words/thoughts that day means more than staging that day. IMO.

Another note: my wedding day is about me and the guy I marry. Not my dad and I. That's not the first thing I think about when I think of him not being around for things in my life.
This post was edited on 4/2/14 at 5:49 pm
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
54630 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 5:54 pm to
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The guy is 62.


For late bloomers read this LINK

03/29/1790 : John Tyler (father) born in Greenway, Virginia
08/24/1853 : Lyon Gardiner Tyler (son) born becomes historian
01/03/1925 : Lyon Gardiner Tyler jr (grandson) born
11/09/1928 : Harrison Ruffin Tyler (grandson) born

Both grandsons are still alive.
Posted by twoliter
Shreveport via West Monroe
Member since Oct 2005
843 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 6:21 pm to
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said that he couldn't understand how people got emotional in response to posters stating that the article made them cry. He didn't say anything about not feeling sad


Sadness is an emotion. I'm confused.
Posted by RollTide1987
Augusta, GA
Member since Nov 2009
65051 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 6:29 pm to
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I hope the apathy some posters show towards people other than themselves is just internet posturing.



Same here. It amazes me how many de-synthesized little shits there are on here.

Posted by Grim
Member since Dec 2013
12302 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 7:31 pm to
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my wedding day is about me and the guy I marry. Not my dad and I.

wow
Posted by lsusportsman2
Member since Oct 2007
27232 posts
Posted on 4/2/14 at 7:38 pm to
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I don't understand how people get emotional after reading this


Because some people actually have fricking souls. Even though this didn't make me cry, this is still really really sad news and I feel really bad for that man and his family.
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