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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?

Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:23 am to
Posted by momentoftruth87
Your mom
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:23 am to
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The whole wife giving her phone number to a stranger is reaching a bit. I have tons of phone numbers and email addresses of ‘strangers’ bc of different activities with the kids.


You ever offer a back massage and talk about loneliness after meeting them?
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:25 am to
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You ever offer a back massage and talk about loneliness after meeting them?


No. But didn’t the guy offer the back massage?? I guess I missed the loneliness bit - he’s lonely too?
Posted by HoboDickCheese
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:25 am to
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if you don’t allude to things you don’t know

that’s all I do

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The whole wife giving her phone number to a stranger is reaching a bit. I have tons of phone numbers and email addresses of ‘strangers’ bc of different activities with the kids
I don’t have kids and I get what you’re saying but my money is on pool baw slaying the red head
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:28 am to
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HoboDickCheese




I’m sympathetic to OP’s wife - although I do not know her IRL. I think it’s more fun on the OT to think the pool guy and red head are hooking up, but I think pool guy was just hoping she was available.
Posted by Ted2010
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:33 am to
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Could you imagine trying to explain this thread to someone who doesn’t know what this place is all about?


It can’t be explained. It has to be experienced
Posted by HoboDickCheese
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:37 am to
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I think it’s more fun on the OT to think the pool guy and red head are hooking up, but I think pool guy was just hoping she was available.

they are and her being married to OP she may still be available. I don’t condone that sort of business but if her husband is threatening going to the pool board instead of talking to him man to man then she may be in need
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:41 am to
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they are and her being married to OP she may still be available.


True - but then why would she bring it up to OP? She could have her massages without him knowing

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threatening going to the pool board


This was lame but maybe OP thought the guy might be creeping on other women, too.
Posted by LSUgirl4
Member since Sep 2009
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:46 am to
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dcbl
OTranda rights:
you have the right to remain silent and lurk.
anything you post can and will be used against you in the td court of ‘ha.’
you have the right to ask for help on the help board.
if you cannot figure out these social rules on your own, you will be reminded and ridiculed.
do you understand these rights as they have been read to you?
Posted by vuvuzela
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Member since Jun 2010
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:47 am to
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pool board


Is this a board on TD? Like MSB? If not, it damn sure should be.
Posted by HoboDickCheese
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Member since Sep 2020
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:47 am to
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True - but then why would she bring it up to OP? She could have her massages without him knowing

to run diversion and only show OP what she wanted to make herself seem innocent all the while she is talking to pool baw on her burner or whatever
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This was lame but maybe OP thought the guy might be creeping on other women, too.

I’m sure he is
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:47 am to
Clearly the logical next step: post this on Nextdoor

Also: community pool? Stop being poor and get your own pool
This post was edited on 7/20/21 at 12:49 am
Posted by momentoftruth87
Your mom
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:49 am to
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OTranda rights:
you have the right to remain silent and lurk.
anything you post can and will be used against you in the td court of ‘ha.’
you have the right to ask for help on the help board.
if you cannot figure out these social rules on your own, you will be reminded and ridiculed.
do you understand these rights as they have been read to you?


This is glorious and so true
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:51 am to
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to run diversion and only show OP what she wanted to make herself seem innocent all the while she is talking to pool baw on her burner or whatever


that’s a lot of work - but maybe the daughter would say something so she had to cover her bases

Lots of creepers at community pools - that’s why I take the kids during the day when there’s no one there
Posted by Rebel
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:54 am to
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LSUgirl4


nobody even knows who you are anymore.


Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:58 am to
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100 pages


37 more to go
Posted by Rebel
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:58 am to
Oh damn. I just went back to page to 61 and found out The Pool Guy has been texted the thread.

This reminds me of the Community Coffee guy that was cheating on his wife thread.


Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Member since Jun 2020
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 12:59 am to
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I just went back to page to 61 and found out The Pool Guy has been texted the thread.


Oh??

quote:

This reminds me of the Community Coffee guy that was cheating on his wife thread.


Don’t know this one …
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 7/20/21 at 1:02 am to
What exactly constitutes due process in relation to the Pool Board? Is one allowed legal representation before the Pool Board?
Posted by HoboDickCheese
The overpass
Member since Sep 2020
14209 posts
Posted on 7/20/21 at 1:04 am to
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37 more to go
we’ve got this lol

ETA: page 64!
This post was edited on 7/20/21 at 1:05 am
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Member since Jun 2020
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Posted on 7/20/21 at 1:06 am to
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page 64!



I didn’t realize that ppl texted pool guy the thread until Rebel said so - I wasn’t reading thoroughly enough

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