re: At which salary level is an individual “doing well”?

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The thought of having a family with kids and tuition gives me anxiety

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I can relate to this feeling when I was 30.

It's important you marry the right lady who has similar education, values and drive as you do... from there you figure it out as you go....trust me, it works out

BUT! just think about this reality..

you're making 100k, single and having kids to pay for stress you out, right....

now imagine if you're a single mother who has 5 kids from 3 different men making a little over min wages? and the men (fathers) are nowhere to be found.


a generalization but for the most part this is going on in America and it has produced the inner city black culture and BLM...

meanwhile woke nation and our over sized government is trying to bring equality to these poor people

there can't be equality when you do life backwards...

that's why decisions are big in life

when to have children?

After education,
After skill training
After job set
After marriage

Poor people do it all backwards, kid first, and basically a life long struggle from there...

if you notice, the conversation in America never gets around to talking about people making better choices, nope, it's about white supremacy and how we need to defeat it...

we're trying to beat something that doesn't even exist and giving POC the illusion things will get better for them

life is an individual sport