re: Dealing with a parent remarrying after one dies?

My advice...from someone who experienced the same thing. Make sure he signs a pre-nuptial agreement. Love him and deal with the new wife. She stayed around long enough to take as much money as she could....when he realized she spent more money than they were making, he slowed down the bleeding and kept it in his account. When he was diagnosed with Dementia, she bailed as fast as she could and filed for divorce without his knowledge, He never understood why she left. We moved in with him and cared for him, loved him, and nursed him until his death. By they way....in his advanced stage of his illness, he never spoke her name....only our moms. He died with dignity and honor. Can’t say it was easy, but you can make it work. Just be there for him.