re: Buddy found his biological father who raped his mother, what to do?

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1. Write it off?
2. Reach out to his aunt to get more of the family involved?
3. File charges with the police and force the guy to address his past?

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I guess you have to ask what's the point? I grew up without my "biological father" in my life, my mother had pushed me to talk to him or get to meet him when were we in close locations. In my life to this point this person is no more than a stranger to me, and actually even less so due to how they had interacted with my mother.

Ultimately though this man didn't shape him, and doesn't seem to be any benefit to him going forward, so what is the draw or drive?