re: I Spent 14 Years Trying to Become an American Legally & Failed

You say this:

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In India alone there are tens if not hundreds of millions dreaming to immigrate to the US - that's why the waitlist is 80 years. Imagine the positive change those numbers could bring to their own homeland if they joined together and focused that energy inward to improving what they already have and know.

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And then follow-up with this:

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I speak from experience having spent almost 30 years immigrating two dozen extended family members here from a country with a 20-year wait list. You?

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Did you ask any of those two dozen family members whether they wanted to stay back in their own country and improve it instead of coming here?

Why does thought process apply to me, but not to your own family? Are you missing the irony here?